Choosing a first sex toy should feel exciting, not confusing. You do not need specialist knowledge or a large budget to find something that suits you. This Scandals beginner's guide explains the main product types, what to look for and how to shop with confidence.
Start with the sensation you want
Before comparing hundreds of products, consider what feels appealing. Are you looking for external stimulation, penetration, something for couples or an easy-to-use toy for exploring at your own pace? Your preference matters more than what is trending.
Types of sex toys for beginners
Bullet vibrators
Compact and often simple to operate, bullet vibrators are popular for targeted external stimulation. Compare vibration patterns, noise level, controls and whether the product is waterproof or only splash-resistant. Browse vibrators.
Wand massagers
Wands offer a broader contact area and a range of intensities. Consider size, power source, weight and where you plan to use one. Lower settings can be helpful when exploring unfamiliar sensations.
Dildos and insertable toys
Focus on usable dimensions, material, firmness and shape—not just overall length. Begin with a size you feel comfortable with and use a lubricant compatible with the product. Explore dildos.
Penis rings
Choose flexible, appropriately sized products, follow the manufacturer's time limits and remove immediately if you experience pain, numbness, coldness or discolouration. Rings are not a substitute for medical treatment of erectile concerns. Browse men's toys.
Strokers and masturbators
These come in different sleeve materials, textures and designs. Check cleaning instructions, drying needs and compatible lubricants before purchasing. Read the men's toys guide.
Anal toys
Only use products specifically made for anal use, with a suitably wide flared base or other reliable retrieval design. Start small, use ample compatible lubricant, go slowly and stop if anything hurts. Read our anal toy guide.
What should you compare before buying?
- Material: silicone, glass, steel and softer materials differ in maintenance and feel. Compare toy materials.
- Controls: simple buttons or a clear remote interface can make a first purchase less daunting.
- Size and firmness: read actual dimensions and product descriptions rather than judging from a photo.
- Cleaning: check waterproof ratings, charging ports and care instructions. How to clean and store toys.
- Compatibility: choose the right lubricant and check any manufacturer restrictions. Beginner's lubricant guide.
- Budget: a simple, well-suited toy can be a better choice than one with features you will never use.
Buying online or visiting in person
Scandals has real adult stores in Liverpool City Centre, Bootle and Birkenhead, with a team you can ask for friendly advice. You can browse independently, compare products online or find a Scandals store to visit. Read what to expect on your first visit.
Online orders are packed discreetly, and free UK delivery is available on eligible orders over £30. We also offer 5% back in loyalty points on eligible purchases, with collection options at checkout.
Frequently asked questions
Do I need to know exactly what I want before visiting?
No. Our shops are welcoming places to browse and ask questions without pressure.
Is a more expensive toy always better?
No. Focus on suitable size, quality, controls, compatibility and care requirements.
What if I am worried about choosing the wrong material?
Review the manufacturer's information or email our team for help before ordering.
Should a new toy hurt?
No. Stop if anything is uncomfortable or painful. Medical concerns should be discussed with a qualified clinician.
Ready to explore?
Start with our complete sex toy range, vibrators, lingerie or lubricants and essentials. We're here if you need a little guidance.
Ready to explore?
Browse products at your own pace, shop discreetly online or visit one of our three real Scandals stores for friendly advice.
