How To Buy Sexy Underwear For Men

Elevating Your Search for Seductive Men's Underwear Because everyone deserves to feel incredible.

For far too long, the world of bedroom attire has heavily favoured women, offering an extensive array of lingerie and garments to entice and excite their partners, while men have often settled for basic black boxers or designer briefs. Is that fair? Hardly.

But if, like us, you believe it's time for a change, why not treat your man to some sensual underwear as a truly special gift? If you're unsure where to begin, fear not. We've curated our top tips to assist you in selecting the perfect briefs or boxers to ensure he feels irresistibly sexy, happy, and confident—both inside and outside the bedroom.

Why Invest in Men's Underwear?

There are several compelling reasons! Firstly, it could significantly enhance his sexual confidence.

There are numerous reasons why your man might appreciate you adding a touch of lace or mesh to his boudoir ensemble:

Having a special outfit for the bedroom could boost his sexual confidence, making the entire evening more enjoyable for both of you. Sensual fabrics, like satin, microfiber, or lace, add an extra playful thrill that you just don't get with cotton supermarket pants. He may have considered wearing something a little different but could be too embarrassed to bring it up with you.

Just as lingerie can help women feel powerful and desirable, seducing his lover in a sexy pair of boxers or wearing a revealing thong underneath his clothes can be a great turn-on for a man.

How Can I Persuade Him to Dress Up?

If you're concerned that your partner may not be up for wearing men's lingerie, the most important thing to do is talk to him about it. Explain how much you'd like to see him in your chosen underwear and reassure him about how good he'd look. His main concern is most likely that he might look silly rather than sexy.

You can also offer to reciprocate by wearing an outfit of his choice to ease his mind, which, really, is a win-win for both of you! Remember, he may need some time to warm up to the idea, and if he's genuinely uncomfortable, don't force him. It's important that both of you enjoy yourselves, after all.

How Do I Choose?

Thinking of buying new underwear for the special guy in your life? Great idea! But before you proceed with your online shopping, there are a few key things you might want to check for first.

Step 1: Discover His Preferences

It's essential to know what your man feels comfortable in before you start. While you may be slightly pushing the limits of what he's used to, you don't want to take it too far, too soon. Check his wardrobe and make a note of:

• Which size boxers or briefs he wears (S/M/L, etc.)
• Which waist size his trousers are (34, 36, 38, etc.)
• Which styles he tends to wear most (such as tight trunks or looser boxers)
• Which colours or patterns he wears most (e.g., plain white, checks, stripes)

By knowing what he already likes, not only will you find it easier to pick a gift, but you're also increasing the likelihood of him feeling comfortable enough to wear it.

Step 2: Pick Your Style

When selecting the cut of your sexy male underwear, opting for something you know he's worn before is always a fool proof plan. However, here are some tips on how to choose the best style if you're torn:

• Trunks and tight boxers offer good support and suit most body shapes. They're also great for making slender frames look bigger.
• Briefs are super-comfortable, fit easily under clothes, and look particularly flattering on men who carry more weight on their legs and bums than on their upper half.
• Jockstraps, thongs, and G-strings cling to and emphasize the size of your man's package, as well as showing off his butt.

Step 3: Choose the Material

Similar to women's lingerie, men's underwear comes in a wide variety of fabrics, each offering a different look and experience:

• If you think your partner would enjoy a more feminine look, lace or satin are a good way to go.
• For a kinkier look, consider wet look or PVC.
• For a safer approach with a hint of allure, look for sheer mesh panels or skin-tight Spandex and Lycra.

Look out for other little details, such as lacing or pop-open panels, that allow your partner to control how much they choose to reveal until they're totally confident.

Step 4: Check the Sizing

Most men's underwear is sized by Small, Medium, Large, Extra Large, making it easy to find the right fit. However, if your man is between sizes, here are a few tips on getting the best size:

• Check the size of his favourite clothes and underwear. If he wears them a lot, it's probably because they're the most comfortable and fit best.
• Look at the brand size chart on the item page to see how his waist or chest size measures up. Many brands use slightly different measurements between sizes.
• Read customer reviews to see what people who have already bought the item said about the fit, especially if torn between two sizes.
• Consider one-size items, which are often super-stretchy or have a variety of fastenings, fitting a range of sizes. However, be cautious as they may not fit all sizes despite their stretchiness.